Does it sound like I need to give her away/up?

I know how you feel but let's look at it this way,she's in a crate,you have a lot of things to do so you can't really play with her,walk her or do much with her do to your schedual so i think you should give her to a family that will have time for her.If your gonna give her to the animal shelter check if they can give you information about the person adopting them(I dont know where your from so i dont know if they'll do that)but if your gonna give them to a family yourself i suggest giving her to a family you trust and KNOW will take good care of her.