Giving him space.....???? (kinda long - sorry)?

You cannot talk to him, sleep with him, get rejected and hope to keep your sanity.. you need to distance yourself.. Right now your of convince to him.. if he is not ready for a relationship don't give him the benefits that come along with being in a relationship. You deserve to have someone that will want you ever day. Don't lose your pride over someone that only view you as an option.. You need to put your foot down act like you are okay with the split and start to move on.. lets see if he wants his space.